It's that time of year again when, for at least one evening, we have the chance to lay aside the restrictions society i
mposes upon as adults and indulge in a few of our own fantasies for a while. Yes! Another year has passed and Halloween is knocking at the door, almost literally at times! Yet, even though we can happily act out our deepest desires by dressing up in one of the many sexy Halloween costumes that retailers are so keen to tempt us with, there is still that little voice in the back of our minds that won't allow us to completely escape from the bindings of normality.
You may have often thought of buying yourself that perfect little French maid costume or that sexy Catwoman outfit but couldn't justify the expense to yourself. Maybe, you just couldn’t find good enough reason to make such a frivolous purchase that you might only wear once. However, there comes a time when a little indulgence can s
et you free even if it’s only for one night of the year. There comes a time when you must let go of your inner functionality just so you can add a little excitement into your life.
The notion that sexy Halloween costumes can only be worn one night every year before being exiled to the back of your wardrobe is not entirely accurate. True, it is not an outfit you would wear to work or to take the kids to school, but it can help disrupt the monotony of daily life.
However hard you try, the day-to-day struggles of life have a way of wearing you down, and taking a spark out of even the best relationships. Oftentimes people believe that it is natural for the flames of passion to fade after a while, but what we forget is that we must work to keep that passion alive.
The concept of working to keep your relationship passionate may be completely foreign, but even the finest wines and the best foods become dull if you have them every day in exactly the same way. It's the same with passion, to fan those flames you have to put fuel on the fire. And what better fuel than a few sexy Halloween costumes that you can put on when your partner least expects it? You should probably consider having a fire extinguisher handy because that fire will roar to life and consume you both.
Sexy Halloween costumes can play an important role in spicing up your love life, but most likely not in the way you believe. Maybe you feel that the only reason your partner finds you more attractive is because you are wearing something revealing and provocative. You may be surprised to find that it has more to do with your attitude when you are wearing that costume that entices and attracts. When you put your costume on, you unwittingly take on the role as well. You are no longer a wife or a mother, you are a woman who is confident and daring enough to don such an outfit, a woman who is confident about her own sexuality and is not afraid to show it. A woman who knows and gets what she wants.
So, maybe sexy Halloween costumes are not such a frivolous investment after all, because as soon as you step into your outfit, you and your partner can live out a fantasy and keep those fires of passion stoked, even if for a few moments. Those moments are what life is all about.